*puts hands over face* Ohgod I am so sorry; it occurred to me about three seconds after I'd pressed 'send' that I hadn't really made it clear that I wasn't, you know. Endorsing this wild extremism. It was merely an example. You and Nick are lovely, and of course there's nothing wrong with being straight. That's who you are. What's wrong is that anyone should want to prevent you from being who you are.